Richard "Dick" Lord

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Wheeler Funeral Home - Oakland
26 Church Street
Oakland, ME

OAKLAND - Richard "Dick" Lord, 62, passed away on Jan. 30, 2019, after a heroic battle with cancer, with his family and friends by his side.

Dick was born on June 12, 1956, to Thomas and Beverly (Violette) Lord.

Dick graduated from Lawrence High School. After graduation, he attended the University of Maine in Orono for one year before enrolling at the New England Institute of Mortuary Arts and Sciences, where he graduated with a 4.0 GPA, and was a member of the National Honor Society.

After Dick graduated mortuary school, he worked at Wheeler Funeral Home for one year before purchasing the funeral home in 1981. Dick continued to serve the families in the Oakland community, and surrounding areas for over 35 years until his retirement. Throughout those 35 years, Dick was a part of the Oakland Lions Club, he was the Treasurer of the Oakland Historical Society, a member of the National Funeral Directors Association, the Maine Funeral Directors Association, and he was a member of the Early Bird Coffee Club which included Norman, Nelson, Doug, Bruce, and Darrel.

Dick married his best friend, Jeannine Violette on June 25, 1976. They had one daughter together, Alexandria (Alex).

Dick had many passions which included, the love of sailing, traveling the world, summers at his camp on Messalonskee Lake, Great Danes, but, Dick's biggest passion was his family. With all of his world travels and trips, Jeannine was right by his side. Dick was always supportive of all of Alex's endeavors. His grandson, Hunter, had a very special spot in his "Grand-Da's" heart. Of course, Dick's family also included his side kick, his Great Dane, "Big Papi", who was always with Dick, wherever he went and wherever a 185 pound lap dog was allowed.

Dick was predeceased by his mother Beverly Lord; and brothers, Jon and Darrell Timothy Lord.

He is survived by his wife of almost 43 years, Jeannine Lord of Oakland; daughter, Alexandria Lord and fiancé, Jeff of Oakland; grandson, Hunter; father, Thomas Lord and wife, Louise; brother, William Lord and wife, Donna; sister, Deborah Thomas and husband, Robert of Knox; sisters-in- law, Tonya Lord of Burlington, Vt. and Donna Lord of Clinton; Dick's nieces and nephews; close friends, Roland "Papa Joe" and Joyce Pooler; and his dog, Big Papi.

There will be a gathering on Saturday, February 9, from 1 to 4 p.m. at O'Brien's Event Center, 375 Main St., in Waterville. There will be a private burial in the spring.

Dick will always be remembered as a genuine man who lived his life serving others. He served his family, his friends, and his community for many years. He lived his life by one of his favorite quotes "Live like no else today, so you can live like no else tomorrow." Dick will be greatly missed by so many.

Online condolences may be offered and memories shared at

Arrangements are by Wheeler Funeral Home & Cremation Care, 26 Church St., Oakland.

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation

in Dick's name to

The Waterville Area

Humane Society,

100 Webb Rd.,

Waterville, ME 04901,

or Charley's Strays, Inc.

P.O. Box 64,

Limestone, ME 04750

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Published in Central Maine on Feb. 4, 2019
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